Showing posts with label Guard Your Tongue. Show all posts
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Wednesday, November 9, 2011

The 31 Prohibitions and Positive Commandments Relating to Lashon Hara


The following is adapted from pages 13-26 of Guard Your Tongue – A Practical Guide to the Laws of Lashon Hara based on the Chofetz Chaim by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin; Gross Brothers Printing Co., New Jersey - publishers (1975):

PROHIBITIONS

1) “You shall not go about as a talebearer among your people” (Vayikra/Leviticus 19:16)
2) “You shall not utter a false report” (Shemos/Exodus 23:1)
3) “Take heed concerning the plague of leprosy” (Devarim/Deuteronomy 24:8)
4) “Before the blind do not put a stumbling-block” (Vayikra/Leviticus 19:14)
5) “Beware lest you forget the Lord, your G-d” (Devarim/Deuteronomy 8:11)
6) “You shall not profane My Holy Name” (Vayikra/Leviticus 22:32)
7) “You shall not hate your brother in your heart” (Vayikra/Leviticus 19:12)
8-9) “You shall not take vengeance nor bear any grudge against the children of your people”
(Vayikra/Leviticus 19:18)
10) “One witness shall not rise up against a man for any iniquity or for any sin”
(Devarim/Deuteronomy 19:15)
11) “You shall not follow a multitude to do evil” (Shemos/Exodus 23:2)
12) “You shall not act similar to Korach and his company” (Bamidbar/Numbers 17:5)
13) “You shall not wrong one another” (Vayikra/Leviticus 25:17)
14) “(You shall rebuke your neighbor) and you shall not bear sin because of him”
(Vayikra/Leviticus 19:17)
15) “Any widow or orphan shall you not afflict” (Shemos/Exodus 22:21)
16) “You shall not pollute the land wherein you are” (Bamidbar/Numbers 35:33)
17) “You shall not curse the deaf” (Vayikra/Leviticus 19:14)


POSITIVE COMMANDMENTS

1) “Remember what the Lord your G-d did unto Miriam by the way as you came forth out of Egypt” (Devarim/Deuteronomy 24:9)
2) “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Vayikra/Leviticus 19:18)
3) “In righteousness shall you judge your neighbor” (Vayikra/Leviticus 19:15)
4) “If your brother be waxen poor and his means fail him when he is with you, then you shall uphold him” (Vayikra/Leviticus 25:35)
5) “You shall rebuke your neighbor” (Vayikra/Leviticus 19:17)
6) “To Him shall you cleave” (Devarim/Deuteronomy 10:20)
7) “You shall fear My Sacred Place” (Vayikra/Leviticus 19:30)
8) “Before the gray-haired you shall rise up, and you shall honor the face of the old man”
(Vayikra/Leviticus 19:32)
9) “You shall sanctify Him” (Vayikra/Leviticus 21:8)
10) “Honor your father and mother” (Shemos/Exodus 20:12)
11) “The Lord your G-d shall you fear” (Devarim/Deuteronomy 10:20)
12) “You shall teach them diligently to your children, and you shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise up”
(Devarim/Deuteronomy 6:7)
13) “From a false matter you shall keep yourself far” (Shemos/Exodus 23:7)
14) “Walk in His ways” (Devarim/Deuteronomy 28:9


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Monday, October 3, 2011

Satan’s Accomplice - Satan’s Strategies

Shmiras Haloshon Yomi
3 Tishrei, 5772 / October 1, 2011


Day 3 - Satan’s Accomplice
SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM (or Chafetz Chaim or Hafetz Hayim) (Hebrew: חָפֵץ חַיִּים‎‎) (trans. Desirer of Life) is a book on the Jewish laws of speech written by Rabbi Yisrael Meir Kagan.

The book is about the mitzvot relating to correct speech and the prohibitions of slander. The title of the work is taken from

Psalms 34:12–15:
"Come, children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of God. Who is the man that desires life; who loves days, that he may see goodness [during them]? Guard your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking deceit; turn from evil and do good, seek peace and pursue it."


Preface (Continued)

The Chofetz Chaim has stated and proven beyond any doubt that the sin of loshon hora (gossip), which was the cause of the Second Temple’s destruction, is the factor which up to this day has prevented us from being redeemed through Moshiach’s arrival. The question is, why? How could this one sin be so destructive?

To understand the severity of loshon hora and its ramifications, one must first understand the judicial system in Heaven through which the Jewish People are judged. The Chofetz Chaim explains that the Heavenly judicial process is initiated by words which Jews speak on this world. Our negative conversations are the key which opens the door for Satan to prosecute.

As Zohar states, (Parashas Shelach - http://www.chabad.org/parshah/torahreading_cdo/aid/45586 read all 7 portions), this sin “brings plague, sword and murder to this world. Woe to those who awaken this evil force, who do not guard their tongues and pay no heed to this! They do not realize that the ways of Heaven are reflective of the ways on this world, both for good and for bad. [Through evil talk,] Satan is aroused to voice accusation against the entire world.”

In this vein, the Chofetz Chaim explains that the teaching (Arachin 15b), “Whoever speaks loshon hora raises sins to the Heavens,” should be taken literally. When we speak negatively of our fellow Jews, this causes the sins of our people to be noted in Heaven, where they are brought before the Heavenly Throne for judgment. We think we’re merely chatting, when in reality, we’re delivering the day’s caseload to Satan.

The Chofetz Chaim offers a second reason why loshon hora is so damaging. Because loshon hora utilizes the power of speech to do its damage, it corrupts this faculty and prevents our Torah and tefillah (prayer) from ascending Heavenward. The Chofetz Chaim envisions the sacred words that pour forth from a mouth corrupted by loshon hora. He sees them heading upward toward our “Heavenly bank accounts,” but never quite getting there. We believe we have accomplished something spiritually, but that’s not what happened. The Chofetz Chaim says, “All the words of Torah and tefillah are hanging somewhere between heaven and earth, suspended in the air.” He concludes: if our Torah and tefillah are not being credited to us, then, “From where will we acquire the necessary merit to bring Mashiach and the Final Redemption?”

4 Tishrei, 5772 / October 4, 2011

Day 4 - Satan’s Strategies
SEFER CHOFETZ CHAIM — Preface (Continued)

“I wondered to myself,” the Chofetz Chaim writes, “how was it possible that this Torah prohibition of loshon hora (gossip) came to be disregarded by so many people?”

The Chofetz Chaim answers this by introducing us to the main strategy of the evil inclination and the tactics which it utilizes to entangle us in the powerful sin of loshon hora.

The average person, writes the Chofetz Chaim, is simply unaware that the prohibition of loshon hora applies to information that is true. (Information that is false is termed hotza’as shem ra, slander.) Therefore, all Satan needs to do is to present information as being true and most people will readily repeat it, though according to halachah (Torah law) such talk is absolutely forbidden.

For people who are more learned, Satan uses a different approach. He convinces the person that the subject of the loshon hora is an evil person and therefore deserves that loshon hora be spoken about him, or that this information is not loshon hora.

If these tactics fail, Satan uses an opposite tactic. He causes the person to worry that every word he speaks might be loshon hora even when it is not. Satan makes it appear that the only choice one has is not to speak at all. Since most people are involved in conversation numerous times each day, the only solution seems to be to ignore the laws of loshon hora, for they are impossible to keep. Satan really is quite clever!

Once Satan has convinced people to speak loshon hora, he goes about spreading his web of misinformation further to draw people into listening to the loshon hora, based on their lack of knowledge of the halachah.

For these reasons, the Chofetz Chaim writes, the sin of loshon hora had become small in the eyes of the world. People became accustomed to speaking without measuring their words against the Torah’s standards. Eventually, loshon hora was no longer viewed as an evil, thereby allowing bitter, damaging conversation to become acceptable, unrecognized as the terrible sin that it is.

Shmiras haloshon, guarding one’s speech, became the mitzvah of the pious, not of ordinary Jews, an irrelevant issue to most people. Satan’s strategies had succeeded. A most severe Torah prohibition, certainly equal to that of eating non-kosher food, was now considered to be nothing more than an optional stringency that only few were concerned with.

All of Satan’s strategies, writes the Chofetz Chaim, were based on his ability to spread misinformation. This was possible because the correct information was generally inaccessible. The laws of loshon hora were scattered throughout the Talmud, having never been collected and organized. People were drowning in the sin of loshon hora simply because they were totally ignorant of it and had no way of learning about it.

It was this tragic situation which impelled the Chofetz Chaim to write his monumental work - Sefer Chofetz Chaim.




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Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Prohibition Against Gossip

1. The prohibition against telling many people L"H

It is forbidden to speak Lashon Hara against one another, even if the information is true, and even if told to only one person - all the more so is it forbidden to speak L"H before a group of listeners. The greater the number of listeners that one gathers to hear his L"H, the greater his sin, for the subject is further disgraced by the heightened publicity against him. Also, the speaker causes more people to sin by putting them in the position to listen to L"H.


http://www.torah.org/learning/halashon/chapter2.html


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Friday, May 8, 2009






The HaLashon class is based upon the work "Chafetz Chaim" written by Rabbi Yisrael Meir Kagan, more commonly known as the Chafetz Chaim due to the popularity of his book. The phrase Chafetz Chaim comes from Psalms 34:13 - "Who is the man that desires life (hechafetz chaim), who loves days to see good? Guard your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking guile...."
(whenever I blog my eyes are towards Zion)

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